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I’m Pregnant with a J-Pouch! (week 5)

I never thought I’d be a mother. Not because I didn’t think I could. My mom has Crohn’s disease and she had 5 babies. My aunt had 3 kids and she also has Crohn’s. I also have several other friends with busted guts who have had children. I knew it was possible to have children with IBD, but I’ve never had that “maternal pull” or “baby fever.” Having a few telltale symptoms of pregnancy, I decided to take a test. I hyperventilated when I saw the two pink lines appear.

I was struck with panic.

Pregnant!? I’m pregnant!?

I was afraid. I called my mom.

Mama… I’m 4 weeks pregnant!” Naturally, as most mom’s are, she was thrilled. I cried.

“Mama… I’m so scared!”

It’s going to be ok.” She said gently and confidently.

I’m so tired of doctors. I’m not ready for more.

I understand, but you will get through this. It’s going to be ok.”

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After freaking out and crying some more, I pulled myself together. It would be ok. Because I know several other women who’ve given birth with IBD and missing guts. I knew that I could contact them any time and voice my frustrations or concerns. I knew they’d be there to give me advice if I asked. Now was not the time for that, however. Now was the time for me to figure out how to tell my husband he was going to be a daddy. I ran to the nearest craft store and grabbed a few items to create a t-shirt and a Christmas ornament.

I was ready to give him the news when he arrived home from work. Like me, he was shocked.

Are you sure?!” He asked.

I nodded my head.

When I made my public announcement two days later to my friends and blog readers, I was surrounded by congratulations, cheers, encouragement and excitement. While it did give me some comfort, I was still afraid. Especially when a few family members stated their concerns… “but your health!” And then a powerful realization hit me.

Since having surgery to get a j-pouch, I’ve been doing great! I’ve been healthier than when my ulcerative colitis ridden colon ravaged my body. I still have days where my j-pouch decides to be finicky, but overall, I’m doing much better.

I shouldn’t worry about this pregnancy.

Because ulcerative colitis is a disease. Pregnancy, on the other hand, is a natural process that brings with it feelings of joy that only a baby can. And at the end of 9 months, I will have something to share my love with.

With the news of my pregnancy, I know there will be several other IBD patients (particularly the ones with missing guts and j-pouches) who may be interested in my journey. Therefore, I have decided to document my journey and share it with all of you. And while everyone’s IBD is different, as I have stated several times, there are a lot of women out there who’ve had babies despite their busted guts. If they can do it, so can I. I hope that as I share my journey, you will find hope and encouragement. Thank you for your support.

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