Hi everyone! I’ve been reading through these forums and have learned a lot! I’d like to share my story and maybe get some advice on what questions to ask or things to bring up at a doctor’s appointment. Sorry, this is really long.
I’m a 28 year old female and ever since I was in high school (more so my junior and senior years) I’ve had issues with abdominal pain and persistant diarrhea. I’d have to get up and run to the bathroom several times during class or stay home all together if it was particularly bad. My mom, who never believes anyone is ever sick, became concerned and we researched some things to try to improve my situation while we waited for an appointment with the GI specialist. I tried a gluten free diet at the suggestion of a friend who has celiac, and it really seemed to help. The GI specialist I saw was seemingly annoyed by my just being there but agreed to do a endoscopy. He very rudely told me my results were completely normal and gave me antacids and said “it’s probably heartburn, maybe IBS.”
I decided to stick with the gluten free diet and have been gluten free for almost 10 years. Over the years I have still had issues with diarrhea and abdominal pain, enough to negatively impact my life. I’ve had to miss work and school, cancel on plans with friends, etc. I used to travel internationally (13+ hour flight) twice a year and I would eat nothing while I traveled so I would run the risk of dealing with diarrhea in the airport or on the plane. Obviously none of this is normal but I was so traumatized by how that first GI doctor treated me that I didn’t want to go back.
About 5 years ago I ended up having issues with pain in my chest and joints. The chest pain was determined to probably be inflammation in the cartilage between my ribs (costochondritis) and the rhuematologist I saw wanted to do blood tests for celiac when I told him about the diarrhea, which came back negative. He made me an appointment with a GI doctor for a colonoscopy but I cancelled it because I was scared.
In 2016 I got pregnant and around 5 months into the pregnancy started having a constant tenderness in my right upper quadrant. My OB thought it was my gallbladder so I had an ultrasound done which showed no stones so the OB said it was probably just normal pregnancy pains. The pain was still there when my daughter turned one so I went to my PCP. She tested me for H. Pylori (negative) and gave me a PPI to take for 6 weeks, which did nothing. I demanded a referral so I was sent to another GI office. I saw a nurse practitioner first who told me it was possible to still have gallbladder issues without stones so she sent me for a HIDA scan which was just barely outside of normal range. I saw the GI doctor at my follow up appointment and he was not convinced it was my gallbladder. He said he wanted to do and endoscopy and colonoscopy and, if those were normal, he’d send me to a surgeon to remove my gallbladder.
So I did the endoscopy and colonoscopy the same day. The doctor said the endoscopy showed some inflammation in my esophagus but didn’t seem worried about it. He also said he found a few polyps in my colon but he didn’t think they were anything to worry about. Pathology didn’t show anything concerning about them. So I was sent to the surgeon and had my gallbladder out. This was well over 8 months ago.
I felt really good after my surgery, no more pain, no more diarrhea. I was worried because I heard that diarrhea problems were common after gallbladder surgery. I thought this maybe had solved my problems.
However, in the past month or two, things have gotten so much worse. The diarrhea is so unpredictable and if I have anything I need to do during the day I basically can’t eat anything at all. Even that isn’t enough sometimes. I had a meeting to go to at school recently so I avoided eating anything before hand and I still got sick. It came on so suddenly while I was driving I couldn’t even pull over anywhere. It was the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to me.
The stomach pains have been awful too. It gets so bad some times that I can’t even stand up straight and I come very close to telling my husband to take me to the ER. It often feels like I’m going to have a bad diarrhea episode but then when I go to the bathroom I struggle to pass anything and if I do it’s hard, dry stool.
I’m currently in nursing school and dealing with this plus school is so stressful. On the days I have clinical I don’t eat until I get home. I’ve lost 30 lbs since August. I’m worried because next semester I’ll be in the hospital for clinicals a lot more and for 12 hour shifts so I don’t know what I’m going to do.
I’ve made an appointment with a new primary care doctor so that I can get a referral to a GI specialist. It really sounds like Crohn’s or something else that I’m dealing with, which terrifies me. Any input or suggestions for me? I’d appreciate anything anyone can share.