Don't we all love our wine, I know I do!
I definitely could never drink when I was in a flare as it would just make things worse for me. There is a lot of sugar in wine and sugar is inflammatory. But now that I have my symptoms controlled, I have wine occasionally and I'm fine. You have to enjoy the goodies in life every now and then.
If you don't feel like drinking though, I would definitely not force it and listen to your body.
Always dancing,
Elizabeth