Hi - Unfortunately, it can be difficult to find a doctor that really feels like a partner. Since everyone with IBD is unique and every doctor is unique, it can be tricky to find the right one for you (much like any relationship!). We'd encourage you to keep trying to find someone that works for you and to be up front about what you need and want, essentially your deal breakers when it comes to doctors! If you're looking for someone who treats aggressively, let them know that's what you're looking for.
Please keep us posted on your search - we are here for you!
- Susan (InflammatoryBowelDisease.net Team Member)