Oh my goodness! I'm so sorry to read about your obstruction and pain! You are not alone. Many of our patient leaders have written about surgery and others have written about avoiding surgery. Paul Richman wrote an article about the decision of whether to have surgery. Here's the link if you're interested: https://inflammatoryboweldisease.net/living/should-you-have-surgery
Here's another article by Jackie Zimmerman who made the decision to have surgery: https://inflammatoryboweldisease.net/living/surgery-ulcerative-colitis
Personally, I know surgery is an individual option. I considered having J-Pouch surgery but ultimately decided against it. I made that decision to not have surgery years ago, and that decision has worked out for my body. Everyone's body is different, and every situation is different. As strange as it sounds, you must feel that decision in your gut. Your body will tell you what to do. I'm glad I listened to my body.
Diet, exercise, vitamins, and daily meditation have helped me stay on a better physical path. Again, that's my body. Do your research. Be kind to your body. And you will know what you need to do.
Maybe some other patient leaders will chime in with their personal experience with obstructions. I haven't had an obstruction. I've just dealt with years of ulcerative colitis flares. It took time, but I finally learned how to navigate the flares. If you give yourself GRACE and time to research options, I know you will find the best treatment path.
Thinking of you. Please update us and let us know how you're doing. In the meantime, read some articles and see what has worked for others. Best wishes for the New Year. --Traci (UC-IBD Team Member)